When communicating with an elderly person, you may need to adapt your style of doing so, as a lot of elderly people struggle with hearing loss and related conditions. With that in mind, let’s take a look at some of the things you should not do when communicating with an elderly person.
Do not underestimate the importance of body language – When communicating with an elderly person, it is imperative to make sure that you do not underestimate just how important body language is. You can learn more about how this can help you to communicate online. It is especially important when communicating with someone who has hearing loss.
Do not make the person feel like they are giving control up – This is one of the most important things that you should not do. The chief battle when speaking with an elderly person, especially a parent, is that they feel like they are giving their control up. It can be difficult for parents to accept their children looking after them when they have looked after their children all of their lives. So, it can be difficult to feel like the roles are reversing.
Do not refuse to accept the opinions of other people in your family – There are going to be times whereby you are not all going to agree on the care of your loved one. And, there is usually not a right or wrong answer when it comes to healthcare. This is why it is important to make sure you are considerate of how other people feel.
Do not assume you know what your parent wants or what they are thinking – Aside from the points that we have mentioned so far, it is important to make sure you do not try and rush your parents into making decisions. You may assume that you know what they want or what is best for them, but you need to let your parents have their own voice and you need to respect their decisions and opinions.
Do not try to tackle a number of different things at once – Last but not least, you should only try to tackle one issue at one time. If you try to broach several things at once, it can be overwhelming for someone who is older. This can end up causing frustration and confusion, which is the last thing that you want to happen. This is why it is important to have patience and to make sure you only tackle one issue at one time.
So there you have it: some of the different things that you should not do when communicating with an elderly person. We hope that this has given you a better understanding of how you should communicate effectively with someone who is older. When someone is older, it can make it more challenging to communicate as effectively as you may have been able to do in the past, and so it is critical to keep this in mind.
Once you decide that your child is of the correct age to learn their way in the kitchen, slowly and appropriately, then they have the chance to develop an amazing life skill as they develop. It’s important for children and especially teenagers to know the value in eating healthily, in cooking properly, in managing the logistics of their refrigerator and making sure they can fill their stomach with good food for less.
This can prevent them from falling to constant takeout foods, from accidentally giving themselves food poisoning from poor technique, and of course, from wasting money when cooking with proper ingredients can be so helpful. This can be especially useful to learn during the student/early professional days, when our beloved children get out into the wider world for the first time.
Teaching your child confidence in the kitchen, then, is a worthwhile use of your time, and there’s plenty of fun to be had here. With that in mind, let’s consider how you’d even achieve such a task:
Baking Can Be A Great First Step
Baking can be a great first step when it comes to introducing your child to the kitchen. This is because there are rarely any sharp objects in use (you don’t need a sharp chef knife to separate dough, for instance), flour is fun to play with, rolling dough and pastries can be a fun skill to learn, and the treats at the end are easy for a child to learn. What child wouldn’t want to try making cookies or a cake they can enjoy? This can be an afternoon task the two of you go through together, and you can show them the value of separating, properly handling, and weighing ingredients.
Simple, Beautiful, Delicious Recipes
Simple, beautiful, delicious recipes can show the benefit of good cooking and that it’s not a complex science, just a rewarding organizational task that always pays dividends at the end. You can even show them how simple great food can be, particularly with the right tools. For instance, this delicious chicken tortilla soup instant pot can provide a thoroughly tasty and nutritious meal with only a slight amount of preparation and cleanup. This can nullify a child’s or teenager’s impression that cooking requires a hefty amount of effort to get right.
The Basic Food Groups
Of course, education means more than just playing around with ingredients, but you can use those ingredients as tools for education. Showing our kids the most important food groups, and how to balance a meal can be a great first step here. Showing them how each meal should be balanced with a light amount of carbs, proteins and vegetables (which encompass both but also provide fibre) can be a healthy way of helping them think of meals as a balance, almost as if you were teaching a newbie guitar player the chords to create songs before actually teaching them songs to begin with.
With this advice, your child will slowly become more of a natural in the kitchen, but more importantly, they’ll enjoy their time within that space.
Soon, people will be ushering in 2022 with excitement, hope, and renewed commitments. Some plan on attending family gatherings or holding secret parties at home. The latter may look more attractive, especially with the UK battling a likely fourth wave led by the Omicron variant. Perhaps, you’re part of a UK household that spent about £700 on Christmas activities and still wants to end the year with a party on new year’s eve. If that’s the case, here are some tips for planning a memorable party with what you have.
The type of lighting you use for a party can make all the difference at a New Year’s Eve party. For many people, it’s all about replacing existing lights with more colorful illumination to create the desired ambiance. On the other hand, if you’re not all for replacing your current light bulbs, you have the option to purchase inexpensive light bulbs you can plug into a wall socket and still get the same effect as a ceiling illumination. The trick to plugged-in lights is to set them up at vantage corners of the house as a way to bounce off walls. Buy different hues to enhance the party mood and for a more detailed effect.
If you’re opting for candles, you may have to exercise some caution here. First of all, beeswax or soy candles are recommended as healthier options as they do not release volatile compounds into the atmosphere. Secondly, it will be ideal to set the candles closer to concrete walls (not plasterboards) and secure them on steady candle stands. While at it, you can also take steps to ensure there are no movements close to your candle stands. If you still have your Christmas décor lights on display, they can add some vibrant color to your party.
One thing many people agree on is that the drinks make the party. Whether it is juices, punch, wines, or champagne, the idea is to have a wide array of drinks to quench your thirst and that of your party guests. It wouldn’t be a bad idea to have hot beverages like tea or coffee close by for those who prefer something warmer. Besides, it’s still winter, and some party guests wouldn’t mind sipping a steaming cup of freshly brewed tea.
As you make plans for drinks, it is also a good idea to keep a large stock of disposable cups. Remember, it is still the COVID season, and you cannot afford to slack on the safety protocols. Champagne flutes and other wine glasses are ideal for a New Year’s Eve party. Therefore, if those are your options, you will have to ensure there are lots of them to go around. This way, you will not have to immediately clean them after someone uses them to make way for another guest to have a drink.
- An abundance of finger foods
If you’ve ever wondered why finger foods seem like the standard meals at parties, this is why. They are convenient, can be eaten while standing, and do not require a formal dinner set up. Thankfully, there are tons of finger food options that you can choose from. The only precaution to take is to alert your party guests to what ingredients are in the finger foods. Remember that some people are allergic to nuts and lactose, and these two tend to be quite common in these treats.
Better yet, if you’re setting up a buffet table, a noticeable note pasted on the table can inform your guests what ingredients are contained in the foods. This is how you can be ‘better safe than sorry.’ The last thing you want is to have a case of a sudden allergic reaction among some guests right in your venue.
Moreover, fruit portions will not be bad options on the menu. Once again, disposable cutlery may be ideal. The same applies to your plates and napkins. Since the party setting is your home, making things comfortable and convenient for you as the host makes sense. When your guests leave, you might be responsible for cleaning everything that isn’t disposable.
- An eclectic range of party songs
Partygoers have different tastes, and once you understand that, it makes sense to have a wide collection of music that everyone can enjoy. Indeed, it is your New Year’s Eve party. However, your guests make the party vibrant, and that’s where music comes in. If you can afford it, hire a party DJ to play this role. If not, any of your friends or family members with appreciable turntables knowledge can help you out. However, the best option can be a wide music collection saved onto a pen drive and blaring from your home’s Bluetooth speakers.
A New Year’s Eve party happens once a year, so if you can, go all out to have a memorable merrymaking event that all your guests can remember in another year.
Once a building reaches a certain age, it’s normal for cracks to appear in the walls. This is the result of the building slowly shifting over time.
If you’ve noticed cracks appearing in your home’s walls, it may not necessarily be a sign that your home is about to collapse. In fact, most cracks are harmless. However, you may want to keep an eye on them so that you know when to take action.
When should you worry about cracks?
Small hairline cracks are usually nothing to worry about. You’re free to still seal them up if you don’t like the look of them, however nothing bad will happen if you leave them alone.
If cracks are growing noticeably longer or wider, you may want to show some concern. Cracks can become an issue once they become a quarter inch wide. If cracks are running the entire length of your wall, you may also want to get them checked out.
What are the concerns regarding larger cracks?
Larger cracks could be a concern for various reasons – some of which are listed below:
They could be letting rainwater in
Large cracks around windows and door frames could start to let rainwater come in. Keep an eye on them when it’s raining to see if any water is coming in. If so, you’ll want to get the crack repaired to prevent issues like water damage and mold.
They could be letting heat out
A large crack could be allowing heat to escape your home (and possibly letting cold drafts in). In the winter, this could result in your home becoming cooler faster, which may result in you reaching for the thermostat more regularly. All in all, it could be increasing your energy bills. Run you hand over the crack on a windy day to see if you can feel a draft – if you can feel air coming in, you may want to seek repairs immediately.
They could be letting critters in
Cracks can let in various critters from spiders to cockroaches. Even rodents may be able to get in – if you can fit a pencil into the crack, it’s large enough for a small mouse to squeeze through. If you’ve noticed pests in your home such as mice or cockroaches, it could be worth looking for the best pest control company in your area to help eliminate the problem. Once this is dealt with, you should then go about sealing up any large cracks to avoid future critters getting in.
They could be a sign of structural weakness
Most worrying of all – large cracks could be a sign of structural weakness within your home. If not repaired, the wall could one day collapse. It’s worth organizing a home inspection to find out if there are structural problems. Issues like subsidence could be to blame – it may be a case of repairing your home’s foundations.
They could bring down the value of your home
If you’re planning on selling your home in the near future, it could also be worth repairing those cracks. Visible cracks will make your home less appealing to buyers due to all the above concerns – agents may price your home lower as a result. By fixing these cracks, you can make your home more appealing and increase its value.
What’s the best way to repair cracks?
Small cracks can usually be patched up oneself. It may be a simple case of pouring a filler substance into the crack such as caulk. When doing this it’s worth using a putty knife to widen the crack first. Then apply the filler and tape over the crack before painting over it to conceal it.
When it comes to larger cracks, you may want to consult an expert – there’s likely to be more work necessary than simply filling the crack. It could be important to first tackle the source of these cracks such as repairing foundations. You can then focus on repairing the crack in the wall.
There are professionals out there that can assess the cracks in your walls and repair them for you. If you’ve got larger cracks, consider hiring one of these professionals. You can then be sure that the problem will be dealt with correctly – you don’t want to patch up a crack yourself only for it to reappear in a couple months.
When you think of preparing your home for winter, your bathroom probably isn’t the first place to spring to mind. That’s understandable but doing a little work now could make your life a lot easier when winter really sets in. Here are some tips to help.
Deep clean your drains
Winter is the toughest time of the year for drains. That means it’s a good idea to get them in the best possible condition before the cold weather sets in. You have at least three drains in a regular bathroom. Give all of them a good, deep clean.
This is one time when you might want to reach for a chemical cleaner straight off. They aren’t great for the environment but they will clean your pipes really thoroughly. This will reduce the likelihood of them needing to be replaced early. For the rest of the winter, you should probably be fine with more gentle cleaners like dish soap, baking soda, vinegar, and hot water.
If you’re not using them already, you might want to pop some drain sticks down your sink and tub/shower. These help to dissolve any solids which do manage to slide down your drain. Likewise, plug protectors are also a really good idea.
Think about heating
Whatever system you use for heating water, get it double-checked before winter really kicks in. Then keep a close eye on it over the course of the winter. If you have a radiator in your bathroom, make sure you bleed it early on. Then, again, keep an eye on it so you are always quick to pick up if it needs bleeding again. Consider putting silver foil behind it to reflect extra heat back into the room.
Think about whether you need, or would just like, some form of extra heating in your bathroom. Remember that bathrooms can get pretty chilly during the winter, especially in the mornings. In the old days, you often just had to live with this because most bathroom heating had to be hardwired.
Now, however, you can get a much wider range of plugin heaters suitable for use in bathrooms. What’s more, increasing numbers of them are “smart”. Smart heaters are great for all kinds of reasons. In bathrooms, the main benefit is that you can activate them remotely.
So, for example, if you need to make a trip to the bathroom before the heating goes on, you can switch your smart heater on before you even get up. By the time you’ve walked to the bathroom, the heater should at least have taken the edge off the cold. For extra coziness, at some bathroom-appropriate mats to protect your feet from cold floors.
Check your window seal
Bathroom windows have a tough life. Not only do they have to cope with different temperatures both outside and inside but they also have to cope with humidity. This means that they can end up needing maintenance, repair, or even replacement long before other windows in the house do.
The most common weak point is the sealant between the glass and the frame. You can generally fix this just by retouching it. If the sealant is really damaged, then you may need to get in a professional to replace it completely or, in the worst case, replace the window.
This might not be what you want to hear with temperatures dropping. It is, however, far better to deal with any issues now than to leave them until the cold weather really starts to bite. This is particularly important if you’re going to be relying on your bathroom window for ventilation.
Think about ventilation
It’s really important to make sure that your bathroom gets enough fresh air in winter. If it doesn’t then the humidity could start to become a real problem. In particular, you could find yourself having to deal with mold. This can be a serious health hazard. The easiest way to do this is just to make a point of opening your bathroom window from time to time.
If you don’t have a bathroom window then look at your current ventilation solution and make sure that it’s in good shape for the winter. In particular, remember that vents generally only work effectively if they’re clean. Again, check this as soon as you can so that, if necessary, you can take action before winter really strikes.
Declutter and restock
If you still have spring and summer products then now is the time to get rid of them. If you really want or need to keep them then move them into an off-season storage location. As a rule of thumb, anything which has been opened needs to go.
This is particularly important for makeup, sun protection, and bug-repellant. Expired makeup can actually be bad for you. Sun protection and bug-repellant just won’t work the way they should. It can, however, be a good idea to hold on to medical products such as lyclear cream. These can be useful even in winter.
Once you’ve cleared out your bathroom, you can use the space you’ve created to restock with winter-appropriate products. This is your chance to make sure that you’re well-prepared for the inevitable winter colds. Just as importantly, it’s your chance to stock up on moisturizing products.
Winter weather can be hugely drying on your skin (as can heating). Your face and hands are particularly exposed so look for deals on facial moisturizer, lip balm, and hand cream and stock up. This is a good opportunity for you to give your bathroom storage a deep clean and general reorganization.
Consider switching out your light bulbs
This is really a bonus tip but it’s still worth considering. For many people, winter is challenging both mentally and physically. Installing color-changing LED light bulbs can make bath/shower time a bit more fun. This can go a long way towards helping people to cope with the “winter blues”.
On a similar note, if you don’t already have a radio in your bathroom, then now’s a good time to get one. Music is also great for helping people to feel more cheerful even in tough times like winter.
If you plan to host a dinner party, you may or may not be aware of how stressful it can be. If this is your first dinner party, then don’t be fooled. There is a lot of time and preparation that needs to go into the organization of such an event if you want it to run without a hitch. If you want our dinner party to wow everyone invited, make sure the night is fun and relaxed for everyone, and most of all, you want to make it look as if you have not been stressed out at all, then you need to take a look at the tips below:
The first thing you need to do is decide who is coming. The more people you invite, the more difficult it will be. If this is your first dinner party, it is probably best to play it safe and invite around four to six guests. Remember you will all be sitting around the dinner table, so it is probably a good idea to invite people who know each other and already have that rapport. Then you could add one or two extras. You are basically considering the flow of conversation, so think about people who are naturally talkative too. When it comes to creating the invites, then up to a month beforehand is a good shout. This gives everyone a chance to clear their diaries. Ensure you consider any dietary requirements here, so ask the question.
So, you know the dietary requirements of everyone, now it’s time to start preparing what you are going to cook. You are going to want to wow everyone, so lots of time to practice is a must. Going for Tapas or meals you have cooked before may be an idea if this whole process is new to you. However, you can always find excellent recipes like how to roast a cornish hen. For the dessert, ensure you make this around two days before the big day.
Red wines, white wines, rose, beers, and ciders, you are also going to want a few soft drinks for anyone you need a rest from alcohol. Think about wines that accompany the food you are making and buy those. Guests generally tend to bring bottles of wine they like with them, so that makes it a little easier.
Start the Preparations Early
You will want to consider the aesthetic and the atmosphere you want to create. Perhaps think about music in the background. You could create a suitable playlist. Then think about the table and candles, and other decor. Make sure you have enough tableware and cutlery for everyone, plus a couple of spares. You could plan a seated table to ensure everyone is in the best position. Think about anything extra such as special garnishes, tools, plates, dishes, etc. Make a list of all the things you need before you go out to buy it. It is probably best to buy the extra things, including the alcohol before you think about buying the food. The food should be bought a couple of days, maximum, before the event to ensure freshness and quality. Flowers for the table should be bough last, perhaps the day before the event or even that morning, if you’re brave. Another thing to ensure is that you have a bag of ice, which always comes in handy.
The Day Before the Event
This is when you need to give your house a thorough clean, especially the dining room and the closest toilet. You should start preparing the food too, anything that can be done now, do it, wrap and refrigerate. Remember to pick up any flowers you want for your table. It may be an idea to begin preparing the table too. That evening take all the rubbish out, so you have clear bins and wash all dishes and ensure that the dishwasher is totally empty. All these little things will make your life a lot easier on the big day.
On the Day
If you haven’t already done so, lay the table, that is your first job. Then set up the kitchen, cutting boards, and knives on display ready to be used. Ensure you have all the dishes out that you will need. Set up a snack station for your guests when they arrive. Don’t forget to get dressed, and it may be an idea to wear an apron in the kitchen. Remember, you are only human. Give yourself a break, weather any storm, and make sure everyone has something to drink.